Oh my God. Are you breaking that rule again? Are you putting yourself first???
GOOD FOR YOU!
It certainly gets confusing, if you ask me. Haven’t you been told time and again that you should be “good to others”? That you should put other people first. That it’s better to give than to receive?
But what a minute! Haven’t you also been told that you should have boundaries? That you can’t give from an empty cup, so fill yours first? That you have to know when to put yourself first?
But when to do which? Oh my God.
There’s only one thing to do: BREAK ALL THE RULES AT ONCE!
It only makes sense. If black and white don’t work, you have to go for the colors in between. You absolutely have to have a different setpoint. You have to have something that will work for you. What is it?
It’s “me first” but it’s not only “me first”. It’s all about this:
Is it making you happy – happy all up in your own self?
Is it making you feel grounded?
Is it making you feel like you?
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