About The Goodbye Good Girl Project™
“I have coached financial entrepreneurs, performers,
attorneys, and business visionaries in self-expression,
helping them deliver their message with greater
self-confidence, personal style, impact and joy
than they ever thought possible.”
Lori Kirstein Helps Women Break The Rules!
Whether the topic is consciousness, systemic transformation, spirituality, communication, or empowerment, Lori asks the questions and helps her clients explore the answers that lead to unapologetic authenticity and live a self-motivated direction.
She founded The Goodbye Good Girl Project based on the idea that women are the change-agents the world needs, and that we must stand up powerfully and joyously to break our[NS1] allegiance to the social shoulds. To do that, we must embrace self-love, self-respect, and self-definition to break the "rules" that hold us captive, so that we no longer turn away from our individual and collective purpose. Winning a dysfunctional game is not the aim. However, transforming and designing the game that works both individually and collectively is the gold ring that powerful women can reach[NS2] .
For more than 30 years, Lori has studied communications inside Corporate America and universities, and out. Her work arises from the connected worlds of Conversational Communication, Practical Spirituality, Self-Expressive Authenticity, and her decades-long work as an Emotional Linguist™, character actor, Self-Expression Coach, writer, singer, and marketing nerd.
About The Goodbye Good Girl Project
The Goodbye Girl Project's mission is to give women of vision the necessary tools to step onto the world stage as powerful leaders and communicators. Once armed with the authenticity, self-confidence, and emotional/verbal mastery gained through The Goodbye Good Girl Project, Lori’s clients are ready to share their focused, powerful, courageous and purposeful message and mission with the world,
Whether the topic is consciousness, systemic transformation, spirituality, communication, or empowerment, Lori asks the questions and helps her clients explore the answers that lead to unapologetic authenticity and live a self-motivated direction.
She founded The Goodbye Good Girl Project based on the idea that women are the change-agents the world needs, and that we must stand up powerfully and joyously to break our[NS1] allegiance to the social shoulds. To do that, we must embrace self-love, self-respect, and self-definition to break the "rules" that hold us captive, so that we no longer turn away from our individual and collective purpose. Winning a dysfunctional game is not the aim. However, transforming and designing the game that works both individually and collectively is the gold ring that powerful women can reach[NS2] .
For more than 30 years, Lori has studied communications inside Corporate America and universities, and out. Her work arises from the connected worlds of Conversational Communication, Practical Spirituality, Self-Expressive Authenticity, and her decades-long work as an Emotional Linguist™, character actor, Self-Expression Coach, writer, singer, and marketing nerd.
About The Goodbye Good Girl Project
The Goodbye Girl Project's mission is to give women of vision the necessary tools to step onto the world stage as powerful leaders and communicators. Once armed with the authenticity, self-confidence, and emotional/verbal mastery gained through The Goodbye Good Girl Project, Lori’s clients are ready to share their focused, powerful, courageous and purposeful message and mission with the world,
I absolutely can not stand seeing amazing, brilliant, talented professional women enslaved by the Good Girl Rules; limited, held back, stopped dead in their lives, their work, their life mission, their self-image! I spent 30 years in Corporate America and all through those years I was planning - and working on - mThey prison break. There was no other option: I was miserable dulling my passion, my purpose and my big personality. So it kills me to see women still following the Good Girl Rules that I confronted and wrestled to the ground for so many painful years.
It is time to change this paradigm!
The Dalai Lama is quoted as saying that the world will be saved by Western woman. We can't do it while obeying rules not of our own making. I'm here to help you make that prison break! My mission is to accelerate the revolution.
It is time to change this paradigm!
The Dalai Lama is quoted as saying that the world will be saved by Western woman. We can't do it while obeying rules not of our own making. I'm here to help you make that prison break! My mission is to accelerate the revolution.
What Kinds of Clients Do I Work With?
Entrepreneurs. Small-to-Medium Sized Companies. Business Teams.
If you have been looking for ways to really show up - even just a little bit more than you have before - then
you are in the right place!
It doesn't matter if you are a leader or actor, business presenter or attorney, or someone who is simply looking for more self-confidence. Tapping into your true self is the very best way to go. Match that with performance savvy, and you've got something you can, as they say,
"take it on the road"!
If you have been looking for ways to really show up - even just a little bit more than you have before - then
you are in the right place!
It doesn't matter if you are a leader or actor, business presenter or attorney, or someone who is simply looking for more self-confidence. Tapping into your true self is the very best way to go. Match that with performance savvy, and you've got something you can, as they say,
"take it on the road"!
What's My Story?
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Once upon a time, I was a very, very good girl. I knew how to read other people, so I knew what people expected of me: be polite, be cute, be sweet. Be quieter, be more approved of. So I used my ability to know when to keep quiet, when to make those other people feel better, and I knew - as all women do - that I was expected to measure my worth by others' yardsticks rather than my own.
But I loved its opposite: everything that requires self-expression: speaking, writing, reading, acting - everything in direct contrast to "sit down, be quiet, and be a good girl". Piece by piece, I started to discover what creates greater freedom, and how to communicate it to others. Sociolinguistic study in grad school led to a life-long fascination with power in language . Studying and becoming a professional actor and singer took me into a deep understanding of emotion and how it connects and shifts with a change in personality, person and power. |
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For over 30 years I have studied communication in the halls of Corporate America, Universities, and online and emotional connection and communication in acting, singing and public speaking.
I started occasionally coaching singers, actors and speakers. And I watched their lives change. I wondered how I could market something that is so multi-faceted; something that touches on emotion, personal psychological/attitudinal settings, linguistics, sociology, relationship, and spirituality.
I realized that all of the elements I utilize - authentic acting and coaching, analysis of layers of meaning, power in language, writing, shameless self-expression and challenging the "norms" - were ideal for doing what these times need more than anything else: a powerful emergence of women's voices. Particularly those women who are change-makers. Those women who are working to make life better for people beyond their own business. Women with a big mission or vision. Women who are leaders who are held back from really getting their message out, because they're stuck in the Good Girl paradigm.
I know how to get out. I know what it takes to confront it. I know how it is something rewarding to walk through, because each time I do, I become stronger, and more certain than ever of my right to ask for my needs, to demand respect, to have stronger boundaries, and to become a more empowered entrepreneurial force in a world that needs new perspectives full of passion, heart, mind, and insight. And I have plenty of those to offer.
The mission of The Goodbye Good Girl Project Is to give women of vision what they need to step onto business and world stages as powerful and opinionated communicators filled with authenticity, self-confidence, and emotional/verbal mastery, so that we can all powerfully share our paradigm-shifting ideas and perspectives with a world that urgently needs to build the collective growth of true quality of life.
I have coached financial entrepreneurs, performers, attorneys, and business visionaries in self expression, helping them deliver their message in the world with greater self-confidence, personal style, impact and joy than they ever thought they could. And I am available as a speaker and coach.
I can be contacted here: Support@GoodbyeGoodGirl.com for bookings and questions.
I started occasionally coaching singers, actors and speakers. And I watched their lives change. I wondered how I could market something that is so multi-faceted; something that touches on emotion, personal psychological/attitudinal settings, linguistics, sociology, relationship, and spirituality.
I realized that all of the elements I utilize - authentic acting and coaching, analysis of layers of meaning, power in language, writing, shameless self-expression and challenging the "norms" - were ideal for doing what these times need more than anything else: a powerful emergence of women's voices. Particularly those women who are change-makers. Those women who are working to make life better for people beyond their own business. Women with a big mission or vision. Women who are leaders who are held back from really getting their message out, because they're stuck in the Good Girl paradigm.
I know how to get out. I know what it takes to confront it. I know how it is something rewarding to walk through, because each time I do, I become stronger, and more certain than ever of my right to ask for my needs, to demand respect, to have stronger boundaries, and to become a more empowered entrepreneurial force in a world that needs new perspectives full of passion, heart, mind, and insight. And I have plenty of those to offer.
The mission of The Goodbye Good Girl Project Is to give women of vision what they need to step onto business and world stages as powerful and opinionated communicators filled with authenticity, self-confidence, and emotional/verbal mastery, so that we can all powerfully share our paradigm-shifting ideas and perspectives with a world that urgently needs to build the collective growth of true quality of life.
I have coached financial entrepreneurs, performers, attorneys, and business visionaries in self expression, helping them deliver their message in the world with greater self-confidence, personal style, impact and joy than they ever thought they could. And I am available as a speaker and coach.
I can be contacted here: Support@GoodbyeGoodGirl.com for bookings and questions.
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This video expresses all of the sentiments that make The Goodbye Good Girl Project imperative to undertake.
I only wish I had been the one to write it. |
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Ready to rock and roll? Contact Lori at Support@GoodbyeGoodGirl.com.
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Support@GoodbyeGoodGirl.com
(510) 508-4708 |
Do you like the idea of breaking those social "should's" that have held you back for too long? Do you like the idea of successfully changing your modes of communication, your business structures, your self-image, and to your quality of life?
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Lori Kirstein, Founder
The Goodbye Good Girl™ Project LLC The Feminine Face of Business Cincinnati, OH 45205 Gratitude to https://www.freepik.com/ for their free images in our social media! |