EXCLUSIVE 5-DAY ONLINE IMMERSION
The
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5-Day Challenge
Breaking Your Good Girl Rules in Real Time
• Live Daily Sessions •
• Private Community •
• Replays •
THE INVISIBLE ARCHITECTURE
The Patriarchal Castle™
Five days. Five unspoken rules that built the Patriarchal Castle of shoulds and shouldn'ts around your life.
You didn't choose to enter it. From the earliest moments of socialization, the walls were laid brick by quiet brick:
•Be accommodating!
•Don't take up too much room!
•Soften your ambition!
•Carry everyone else's emotional weather!
•Apologize for existing with full conviction!
Over time, the fortress felt less like an imposition and more like your own skin.
You learned to manage the exhaustion, silence your boundaries, and mistake self-abandonment for virtue.
This challenge is not another self-help checklist: I don't believe in band-aid answers.
This is the experiential bases you need to systematically dismantle the fortress from the inside out.
5-DAY CURRICULUM ARCHITECTURE
The Five Rules
We Will Break Together
Each evening at 6:00 PM Eastern, we break one Good Girl Rule together
and the next day debrief, and support our progress!
Then a wrap-up Saturday coffee gathering on the morning of the sixth day
to plan our individual continued Castle jailbreaks.
DAY 01
Thou Shalt Not Matter
The lie that your feelings don't count. Notice what you feel, with curiosity instead of judgment, and let all of you matter.
DAY 02
Don't Brag
The rule that keeps your light hidden. Name what you like and respect about yourself, then put it where you can see it.
DAY 03
Be Nice
Nice to everyone but yourself. It feels fierce to give yourself the kindness you effortlessly give others. But it also changes your life. Find what already feels soft to you in the world, and let yourself receive it.
DAY 04
Put Everyone Else First
The habit of coming last - or not considering yourself at all! Ask the question you've been skipping: What do I need right now? Paying attention to yourself first may be the most breakthrough moment of your day.
DAY 05
Be Perfect. Now.
The standard that keeps you stuck. Give yourself what you need, in whatever amount and way you choose. Small counts. In fact, small is how you lay the stepping stones under your feet build your preferred life, solidly.
Replays Available in the Ongoing Community Page
LIVE SCHEDULE & TIME ZONES
When We Gather
This challenge is built for real-time breakthroughs. We meet live on Zoom each evening for structured instruction, live coaching, and collective accountability. Daily replays are posted within the private portal if your schedule requires flexibility.
All Zoom access links and calendar invites delivered immediately upon registration.
OCTOBER 2026 SESSION DETAILS
Platform: Hosted live on Zoom
Days 1 - 5: Mon Oct 26 - Fri Oct 30 | 6:00 PM - 7:00 PM Eastern
Integration Wrap-Up: Sat Oct 31 | 10:00 AM - 11:00 AM Eastern
Time Zone Reference: 3:00 PM - 4:00 PM Pacific | 5:00 PM - 6:00 PM Central
24-Hour Replays: Uploaded nightly to your private challenge dashboard
Can't attend live every day? No problem. Replays remain accessible throughout the challenge so you never fall behind on daily exercises.
THE 5-DAY VALUE BREAKDOWN
Everything Included
Every tool, live immersion, and guided conversation needed to dismantle silent compliance and rebuild your unapologetic presence—all for one single investment.
6 Live Interactive Sessions with Lori Kirstein (Daily Breakthrough Coaching + Extended Q&A)
Private 24/7 Access to the Exclusive Goodbye Good Girl Project Challenge Community Channel
Direct Peer Mentorship
Safety, Humor, Understanding, and Room to Grow in Real Time
Instant pass delivery
PRIVATE PASS
The Goodbye Good Girl Project Collective
Get direct access to our moderated private channel where women deconstruct old stories, share breakthroughs, and hold sacred space together.
$47
"You don't fight emotion. You make room for it.
MEET YOUR CHALLENGE GUIDE
Meet The Emotional Ninja
I'm known as The Emotional Ninja. The Patriarchal Castle says "Don't be so emotional." It says, "You are the enemy to yourself." As a result we fight our feelings, we fight ourselves, and we lose.
I fought my emotions throughout forty years of clinical depression. Then I learned what every ninja knows: meet the moment without resistance, and you find a gentle but irresistible power to change what happens next.
Over five days, I broke a forty-year pattern.
Now I help other programmed women break the castle rules and get free to choose their paths, make their impact, speak their truths and be recognized as they authentically are.
SECURE YOUR PASS
Your Turn To Get Free
Claim your seat in the 5-day immersive challenge.
Step beyond the patriarchal rules and reclaim your authority.
A Note On Safety
This challenge is a practice in self-kindness, self awareness and personal unfolding - not therapy or treatment. If something comes up that feels too big to hold alone, pause, breathe, and reach out to a therapist or someone you trust.
You matter too much to go it alone.
Empowering women to dismantle patriarchal barriers, reclaim authority, and unapologetically thrive in community.
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