Talks & Workshops
Provocative, funny and deeply human experiences that help women recognize inherited limits—and begin moving beyond them.
Explore talks and workshops →The Goodbye Good Girl Project
Don’t believe in your limitations.They’re not even yours.
You were taught to fight yourself. But you were never the enemy. The rules that keep you policing, blaming and restraining yourself were learned—and
they are not your authority.
Self-punishment will never fix what ails you.
Begin where you are
Ways to Work With Me
You do not need the whole map. You need a clear place to begin, and operate from. And you need to stop abandoning yourself to the “shoulds.”
Personal Freedom Coaching
For the woman at a threshold who is ready to stop fighting herself, find her right next step and move forward as the author of her direction.
Have a conversation →Business From the Feminine
Build or reshape your business without treating masculine-only rules, hustle and self-erasure as the price of success.
Talk with Lori →Business Systems Consulting
Practical help with processes, GoHighLevel, documentation and infrastructure—designed around the humans doing the work.
Discuss your business →About Lori Kirstein
I see the shackle instead of blaming the woman wearing it.
I’m a living-systems speaker, workshop leader and coach. I help women challenge the patriarchal rules they have internalized so they can stop building their lives and work inside artificial limits.
My work is direct, experiential and practical. We tell the truth about what keeps you stuck, make room for everything you were taught to discount, and find the next movement toward freedom.
Ready to stop fighting yourself?
Let’s talk about where you are, what you want and what movement could look like from here without the limiting boundaries.
Let’s Talk